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About Lucretia

I'm a former educator, keynote speaker, facilitator, and author with a heart for helping Christian single women navigate dating with clarity and confidence. My passion for this work isn’t just based on my own journey as a single woman but also from watching close friends struggle with modern dating. I saw the challenges, the confusion, and the discouragement—and I knew I wanted to help.

Now, I love speaking about building healthy relationships and guiding single women toward intentional dating that aligns with their faith and purpose. Whether through coaching, speaking engagements, or writing, my goal is to empower women to date with wisdom, confidence, and clarity.

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Love With Purpose Dating With Faith

Love thrives when God is at the center, serving as the foundation for relationships built on faith, purpose, and divine guidance.

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About DJ

Hey, I’m Daryl—co-host of When Marriage and Purpose Collide and a mentor for Christian singles. After meeting my wife, Lucretia, online, we got engaged in a year, married six months later, and committed to helping others navigate faith and relationships with intention.

I bring a male perspective to our coaching, podcast, and Intentional: Christian Singles Dating Experience, bridging the gap between faith and real-life connections. Beyond that, I’m a TikTok creator and CapCut editor, teaching others how to make engaging content. Whether in relationships or creativity, my passion is helping people step into their purpose with confidence!

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Hi! We’re DJ and Lucretia Haley

Hey there! We’re DJ and Lucretia—just two people who met on an online dating app, fell in love, and got engaged within a year. Six months later, we were married and stepping into a life of purpose together. From the beginning, we’ve been passionate about serving others, whether that was Lucretia running a nonprofit for youth or DJ stepping in to support however he could. In 2019, Lucretia felt God leading her to take a step away from the organization and write Before the Husband: A Seven-Day Devotional for Single Women Pursuing Purpose. That devotional sparked something bigger—coaching single women who desired marriage. But we quickly realized that men needed encouragement, too! So, DJ jumped in to bring a male perspective, and together we launched When Marriage and Purpose Collide—a podcast to help Christian singles date with intention and build strong relationships. From there, we created Intentional: Christian Singles Dating Experience—a space where singles get coaching and step into a virtual blind dating experience (yes, real dates!). We wanted to bridge the gap between faith, dating, and real-life connections. Outside of this, we love pouring into engaged and newly married couples through our local church and as Prepare-Enrich Certified pre-marriage coaches. Our heart is to help singles date with clarity and confidence while also equipping couples for a strong, healthy marriage. Together we created the Communication Game Changer: Check-In Cheat Sheet. And when we're not coaching or podcasting, we’re creating! Lucretia speaks to first-generation college students and helps them navigate life’s transitions, while DJ has built a growing TikTok community as a CapCut editor—teaching others how to create engaging content through live tutorials. At the end of the day, we’re just a married couple who loves God, loves people, and wants to see singles thrive in their journey toward marriage. We’d love to connect with you!

Empowering Singles to Date with Purpose and Build Strong Relationships

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Intentional Christian Singles Dating Event

A virtual dating experience designed to guide Christian singles in purposeful dating.

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Podcast

Topics range from intentional dating to preparing for marriage, all rooted in biblical principles.

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Coaching

One-on-one and group coaching sessions for Christian singles.

Focuses on clarity, confidence, and God-centered relationship building.

A purposeful, Christ-centered relationship is possible
 

Here’s what we have to offer to help you get there.

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Building healthy, Christ-centered relationships is absolutely possible.

Enter a space where faith and intentionality align. Our dating events focus on fostering authentic connections among Christian singles. Beyond meeting new people, it’s about cultivating Christ-centered relationships built on purpose, growth, and shared values. Take your first step toward meaningful love today.

We get it—dating today can be frustrating and confusing. But it doesn’t have to feel hopeless or overwhelming.

The 'When Marriage and Purpose Collide' podcast is your trusted guide to navigating relationships with intention and faith.

With every episode, you’ll gain:

  • Practical insights for purposeful dating.

  • Real talk on dating trends—from a Christian perspective.

  • Personal stories from real experience.

Start your journey today—your next favorite episode is just a click away!

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Faith-Based Coaching for Meaningful Relationships

Discover the transformative power of faith-based coaching. Our personalized programs are designed to help you navigate the complexities of dating and relationships with clarity and confidence. Rooted in biblical principles, these sessions aim to equip you with the tools and guidance needed to build meaningful, Christ-centered connections.

  • Discover the transformative power of faith-based coaching.

  • Personalized programs tailored to help navigate dating and relationships with clarity and confidence.

  • Rooted in biblical principles to equip you with tools for Christ-centered connections.

  • Designed to foster growth, understanding, and purpose in your relationships.

Explore Resources to Enrich Your Journey

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